When choosing a rabbi please remember the following
Orthodox Judaism only accepts Orthodox conversions as valid
Conservative Judaism accepts Orthodox and Conservative conversions as valid
Reform Judaism accepts Orthodox, Conservative, Reconstructionist, and Reform conversions as valid
Reconstructionist Judaism accepts Orthodox, Conservative, Reconstructionist, and Reform conversions as valid

There are some general guidelines for you to follow in discussing becoming Jewish
The most important part of discussing conversion is not to be afraid or reluctant to discuss the subject.
Remember that conversion is a long process, and not a single action.
Because a welcoming attitude is the most important contribution you can make, remember not to use any emotional pressure.

Here are some suggestions for telling people about your conversion to Judaism
Think through your feelings and practice talking them out.
Most experts think telling parents in person and to both parents at the same time is best.
Telling your parents as soon as possible is best.
There is no special time to tell but such an announcement shouldn't be made during days of obvious religious significance or personal significance
It is better to speak to parents alone.
In telling your parents about your conversion, discuss what you find attractive about Judaism, how it met a particular need, how it helped a relationship, how you feel closer to -  not further from - your parents, in part because of Judaism's emphasis on family.
Be prepared for a range of reactions from support to shock to total disapproval.
Follow up a visit with a letter or phone call.

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